As a professional, why do this new thing? Why not stick with the old way? (This new way of approaching care makes some people uncomfortable, or anxious).

There is a myth going around that doctors want as many patients as they can gather, so they can make a lot of money off of them. In truth, most doctors have too many patients already.

Unlike children, adults with new mental illnesses are accustomed to functioning independently. There many be limits to how much involvement Mom or Dad will allow you to have.

Get your own anxiety under control.

When your child is hurting, especially when he has a problem that is hard to comprehend, you might get worried and overwhelmed. Take care of yourself and deal with your own anxiety. A nervous parent won’t be as helpful as a calm one.